Boyfriend Texting Another Woman
submitted friday 30 march 2013 by Naomi /s/Romance    report abuse

I found that my boyfriend had sent some texts to another woman saying he missed her. Context is that he has known her for years - they have the same friends and he met her well before me. She is married and has a child. In the text he wrote

'I'm ok I just miss seeing you ;-) anyway I hope to see you sometime'

I immediately felt that something was going on and confronted him about it. He swore nothing was going on and that he misses her as a friend because he hasn't seen her in a long time. His body language didn't give away any signs that he was lying. He also said that to miss seeing someone is different than to actually miss them.

Any texts from her to him that I've read did not look suspicious in any way. But his text to her did look a bit suspicious I felt.

But still I don't know how others would generally have reacted to this and I'm confused.

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Gats24 monday 4 june 2013
You have to know that he is still in love with you.Dont deny him he is yours forever.Have a blessed day.

Toluwase tuesday 5 june 2013
i can ascertain u that he is nt cheating on you, as he has said, he just missed an old frend, stp thinking thr is anythn between thm

Gio13 tuesday 5 june 2013
I get the feeling he is not cheating you. The message sounds like a normal one missing a friend. I wouldn't be too harsh about it.

Abdullahi tuesday 5 june 2013
PLS BABE DON'T BE DEPRESS AT ALL,HE LUV U.

Onome tuesday 5 june 2013
Please naomi, try not to be insecured in a relationship. its not a good sign at all. Needless to say also that a guy is a guy. its a good thing you believe what he says. and trust is equally a very key virtue in a relationship. But be that as it may, experience has equally shown that people change and when they do, they do it without telling. its not a bad thing to miss someone. But the person being missed in this context is a married woman with a child. there's every possibility that they loved (or liked) each other at a time, but the relationship didn't work out, not becos they were not compactible, but becos several other measures were taken. She might not be comfortable where she is also. but all d same, i'm sure if they both meet, sparks will kindle into flames. just be careful and be prayerful. lots of love