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I Am Not A Lucky Girl! Please Why?
submitted saturday 9 february 2014 by Nancy /s/Romance    report abuse

God please I am dying here,which man will I trust again upon my luv and caring towards dem,still wat I will receive is hrt broke,why I am nt a lucky me lord

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Magala Kenneth thursday 5 june 2015
Your Not Unlucky.. Just Try ...
Max2ko wednesday 11 june 2015
hey be patient and everything will be fine
Thankgod thursday 12 june 2015
Do u know y u not sumissive and tolerance . And again u don't know who love u. D person will love u don't give him ur love . U v to keep praying to God so dat God will see u through my dear
Excalade Hayford friday 13 june 2015
Sorry i can just imagine hw u feel. But de fact is everybody will eventual find love if and only if u look at de ryt direction
Helligon monday 16 june 2015
Many are saying u shld pray to God bt first u hav to check urself n see whether there is notyn on u that is sending them away n do ur correction not everything dat u need to go to God dats y we have conscience n if u are nt ready dnt attempt cos they would come and take the good tyn u hav n go away. Open ur eyes widely before u go into it again.
Olawale wednesday 18 june 2015
I am a guy that want to have girls that need a guy to trust
Sanjo wednesday 18 june 2015
Not all men are bad
Temitope wednesday 18 june 2015
don"t wori ur rite men wil cme gud pm
Temitope wednesday 18 june 2015
whr u dey
Kelly wednesday 18 june 2015
Men as u tink may be bad in some cases, bt u ned 2 check ursef properly. Ask ursef, were are u always goin, except u're always meetin d wrng pple. Nobdy is born perfect, bt u ned God 2 help u in meeting a nice and understandin persn, who can talk 2 u weneva u're wrng, instead of breakin ur hrt.
Daniel wednesday 18 june 2015
Let me love u then
Dooling Lourence thursday 19 june 2015
Hi beauty i m on board so hola at me so we cn knw each othr
Peter thursday 19 june 2015
i can help. i am better.
Temitope friday 20 june 2015
i am available babe
Adedayo friday 20 june 2015
hello, dear I think this is the real thing you need.
I am very much convinced that a lot of people want to
get married, but what I am not certain about is if they
really want to prepare for it. It is true that a lot
of single people out there are looking for eligible
partners for marriage, but the question is how many
people are ready to make themselves the right man or
the right woman for marriage?
Preparation for marriage means getting yourself ready
in so many ways to share your life with another, and
if you have chosen to share your life with another,
then you better make sure that the quality of life you
want to share is worth it at the end of the day.
Talking about quality of life, you may want to ask
yourself how sound you are Spiritually (and by that I
am not talking about the fact that you belong to a
place of worship alone, but that you have a personal
conviction that God exist and that He is a re warder of
those that diligently seek Him), Emotionally (meaning
you feel good about yourself and can handle without
breaking down, how others feel about you without taking
things out of balance) Psychologically (your thoughts
are not out of balance. Your perceptions of things
around you are in order. There is no dysfunctional
properties in your life that will always make it
difficult for you to adjust properly to your work,
personal life, significant others in your life, money
etc, Financially (you have acquired skills in life that
is able to make you add value to others who in turn pay
you for a job well done, and you are able to budget,
prioritize your needs so you spend appropriately based
on values and not greed, invest and watch your money
work for you instead of you always working for your
money) Intellectually (you have the capacity to acquire
information that will be useful for your continuous
development in every area of your life without your
mind being crowded with worrisome thoughts etc.
If you make yourself the right person instead of always
looking for the right person, you will find out that
half of your problem in preparing and seeking for a
life partner is well solved. Now the major thing in
preparation is you must be a person of Truth, for
without truth, we can never, and I mean never start the
journey of love. For you need Truth to make way for
Trust, without which there can never be growth in a
relationship. People that can’t trust each other can’t
grow together and what’s the point being in a
relationship either marital or premarital and both of
you can’t grow together? And people who don’t trust
each other can’t have Respect for each other, so tell
me how I can put you into consideration if I don’t
respect you. As I see you as a person who is truthful,
and I find out I can always trust you, I start to have
a measure of respect for you that makes me to like you
enough to be in Love with you, and at this point, I
can share anything and everything with you, which
brings me to the level of Intimacy. People think when
they have sex with someone, they have become intimate
with that person they slept with, but that is a big
lie that we must not continue to buy. I can get very
intimate with you by sharing truth with you, learning
to have you trust me as I also trust you because you
also tell me the truth which encourages my respect for
your person to grow as I also position my person as a
trustworthy person also worthy of respect. At this time
if you look at me and say “I love you”, I don’t think
you are a joker, I know you know what you are talking
about, and if I say I love you too, then deep down me,
I know that I know what I am talking about and not
just saying it because it is the right thing to say
since we are in a romantic relationship.
Today, I can tell you that a lot of us have so much
work to do on and with ourselves. Most of us are not
truthful to ourselves. We are so comfortable lying
about who we are, what we should be doing, who we
should be that when we start lying to others we may not
even know we are lying anymore and that is even more
dangerous. I have lied to myself so much that I don’t
even know when I am lying to someone else anymore. And
that is what a lot of us are experiencing in
relationships right now. Someone comes to me and says
“LOVE DOCTOR", I just found out that everything he told
me about himself was a lie”. Then you ask how long she
has been with him and she says for 3 years, and then
you ask how come she didn't know, and she tells you
because he naturally lives a lie that he doesn't even
know when he is lying anymore, because it comes
naturally with him. Now, such a person needs help, and
that person can be you or me. Let’s consider our ways.
Someone else comes and says” in fact LOVE DOCTOR, he is
everything I have ever wanted in a man. He is strong,
and can control me, he makes decisions for us and I
like that in a man, he is able to tell me off when I
am wrong, he creates opportunities for me, and helps me
to look into the future, I just thank God I found
him”. My dear girl, you are such a liar that you don’t
even know when you are lying to yourself anymore. This
man you are talking about is married and has a wife and
family at home. He lives in the company of his wife, so
why do you want to crowd up their lives? Haven’t heard
that two is a company and three is a crowd. Alright
keep deceiving yourself until the rain is gone and then
maybe you can see clearly then. I Am Not A Lucky Girl! Please Why?

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